Friday, November 12, 2010

The Forgotten


These are the forgotten ones. The Badi people of Nepal are a people of rejection, pain & sorrow.  Their girls are bred for the entertainment for evil men.  They don’t get the rights that are granted to those higher on the caste system.  There is no one to fight for their agendas.  They are of the bottom of the barrel.  They are the broken, the untouchables.  They are the forgotten.

There are the children of the Acholi tribe in northern Uganda; children born and are named by hell.  Because their villages are burned, they live in ghettos with no buildings- only tarp-covered shanties.  They are abducted by people of their own tongue who come to them and cut out their tongues or recruit them to fight wars that are not their own.  They are the forgotten. 

They are the family across the street.  They are the new Jones’.  You don’t see them much besides when they step into their rusted-out brown station wagon which heralds bungee cords across the trunk to keep it from popping open on the speed bumps.  The mom is doing it all alone now.  She is always yelling at her hyperactive half dozen.  They leave with a few bags of groceries bought by Uncle Sam.  People stop by their house once in a while.  Usually it’s a man by himself who parks his car for a visit on your side of the street and even on the edge of your grass.   Words like daggers slice through your walls…words of ugliness.  Crying ensues.  These are the forgotten.

Friday, October 29, 2010

Are all children full of piss and vinegar?

Two middle-aged women are chatting over vanilla chai in the kitchen. Ten-year-old Murphy is alone in the cream-tiled living room. The pumpkin muffins bakes in the oven.

Visitor Mom:  What's that sound?

Mom [unalarmed]:  Oh. Little Murphy is watering the plants in the living room again

[Visitor Mom leans over her chair and glances into the living room. Her face contorts, and she is flabbergasted.]

Visitor: I actually think he is peeing on the floor. 

Monday, October 11, 2010

I'm Thankful I have Lips

Could you imagine not having lips?  Not only could you not enjoy a tall Starbucks Pike’s Peak, you couldn’t sing Amazing Grace and whistle “Winn Dixie” (well, if you even know Winn Dixie).  You couldn’t blow a kiss to your little niece or plant a wet one on your beloved’s cheek.  Forget the times when outside on crisp, winter mornings in December, you would lick your lips and the icy wind would bite them.  

I am thankful that I have lips.  However, this amenity that is not often thought about is not even a reality for many children in the eastern African country of Uganda.  Now they only dream of slurping Coca-colas through a straw.  It’s not that these children were born without lips, but contrarily, their lips were violently seized from them by the machetes of guerrilla soldiers.  

Monday, September 27, 2010

Fatherlessness in Minnesota: what is the answer?

I know a young African American man named Brandon who has aspirations like most other guys his age.  He enjoys going to the mall, hanging out with friends, fast cars, girls... pretty typical.  At one point he told me when he wanted to join the US Air Force and to become a fighter pilot.  But unlike many guys his age, his biological parents are out of his life.  Brandon's mother died of cancer about three years ago.  His dad might as well be dead, as he has been a recluse and living in a completely different state from his children.  Since the death of his mom, his nineteen-year-old sister has become a single parent mother; his three younger siblings have been adopted by his Aunt, and he was without a home. 

Friday, September 24, 2010

To the foster / adoptive parent who can't seem to find a way...


i don't have what it takes...
He has all that you need.
he hates everything that I do for him...
Jesus was and is hated, too.
i can't trust this child, he only lies to me...
He is not a man that He should lie.
i wasn't even fathered well...
God, your Papa, will make up for what you missed.
i have no more strength in my body to go on...
He sweat drops of blood.
will this vicious cycle ever end?
Jesus is alive and will make all things new!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Is there redemption for the sexually traumatized child?

The other day, I watched a video of a young girl named Beth who was six years old and confessed to molesting her little brother, killing baby birds & even without batting an eye recounted details that she wanted to kill her entire family.  I couldn't believe the horrific things that I had heard coming out of this girl's mouth.  Although at the only tender age of six, she had the conscience of a psycho path murderer who would most likely go on to carry out her proclamations if she didn't get treatment.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Human Trafficking: a brief

What is human trafficking?  Many people have probably heard this term tossed around, but how much do people really understand depth and scope of it.  Most people have in mind that slavery has for the most part been totally eradicated since the Thirteenth Amendment passed by the US congress in 1865.  However, there are actually twice as many slaves in earth now than during the entire four centuries of the Trans-Atlantic slave trade (Batstone, 6).  According to the organization Free the Slaves, there are currently twenty-seven million people are held captive worldwide in some form of slavery (http://www.freetheslaves.net/).